I have the right:

• To trust myself and my instincts.
• To refuse a date.
• To ask for a date.
• To suggest things to do.
• To refuse to do something, even if my date is excited about doing it.
• To be respected as a person.
• To disagree.
• To have my limits respected.
• To be listened to.
• To say “no.”
• To be cared about.
• To refuse touching.
• To refuse sex with anyone, even after a date that costs a lot.
• To stop dating some-one who puts me down in public or private.
• To leave a person who hits or slaps me.
• To break up with someone who hurts me, even if I love them.
• To break up with someone who hurts me, even if they love me.
• To break up with someone who makes me feel bad.
• To ask for help if I need it.

I have the responsibility:

• To set my sexual limits.
• To discuss my limits with my partner.
• To respect other people’s sexual lim-its.
• To speak clearly and be honest.
• To take care of myself.
• To stay away from situations that might not be safe.
• To listen to other people.
• To care about other people.
• Not to expect sex after I spend a lot of money on a date.
• To never humiliate another person in public or private.
• To refuse touching when I don’t want it.
• To refuse sex when I don’t want it.
• Not to do something that makes me uncomfortable.